How to give a blowjob: the guide

Your man asked you, but you don’t have the slightest idea how to give a blowjob? Don’t worry, because if you’ve never done it, but would like to learn how to do it, today in this guide we will reveal the secrets on how to suck your man’s cock, send him to heaven and also get the well-deserved “Miss Cocksucker” sash. Year“!

Sucking cock, especially if it’s your first time taking one in your mouth, can be very daunting. And it is inevitable that your mind will start asking ten thousand questions: “what if I hurt him?”, “am I doing it right?”, “is it better if I only use my mouth or also my teeth?” or “what if sperm tastes gross?”

To answer these questions, and also teach you how to give a killer blowjob, we asked for advice from some of the best-known sexologists out there. And everyone, without exception, told us that the secret is, first of all, to have fun and make yourself comfortable. For the rest, continue reading our guide to the perfect blowjob!

How to give a blowjob: watch your mood

Let’s start by telling you that, to give a blowjob like a pornstar, first of all you have to be in the right mood. You will enjoy it more, because if you do it thinking you have to do it, then it won’t be pleasant, neither for you nor for your partner. If you are already horny, and craving his cock, it will be a completely different experience. Whoever receives the blowjob always loves when his partner enjoys it.

1 – Get out of your head and relax

If you are thinking “in your head” whether you are doing it right or not, you will not enjoy the act, you will not relax and, above all, you will not have fun. And if you don’t have fun, your partner will hardly have fun. Therefore, when you have his penis in your mouth, don’t think about anything else.

Learn to relax. Relax around your jaw, throat and cheeks. The type of pleasure your partner will receive will also change. If you are relaxed, your mouth will be softer and more flexible and your tongue will also be more pleasant to feel and will “work” better on the shaft and glans.

There is a big difference for a man in receiving a relaxed blowjob and one from a partner who is trying to simulate the vacuum cleaner The other benefit of being relaxed is that you will be less likely to get a sore neck.

To help you, you can also put on some music. Blowjobs are really rhythmic, and while you’re moving your head, there’s no reason why you can’t move the rest of your body. It will really engage you and push you to let go, rather than keep thinking “am I doing this right?”.

2 – Make yourself comfortable and just think about enjoying yourself

Another way to enjoy a blowjob, and relax, is to find a position where you are pleasuring yourself as well as your partner. Any examples? If you’re not already an expert at sixty-nine, it could be a pillow between your legs or using your own hands to masturbate.

Still speaking of the hand, in addition to the mouth, there is also much more that you can use to give your guy a stellar blowjob. For example, you can reach out and caress his chest, or you can reach down to his bottom and give him a naughty squeeze.

There are other parts of his anatomy that you can caress and stimulate, such as his balls or ass. In fact, who said that, to give a blowjob, you only have to have your mouth on the penis and do nothing else? And if you don’t want to let your mouth do all the work, you can also use your hands on the shaft of his penis or caress his balls with your fingers.

The question of the century: do I spit or swallow?

If you’re not using a condom while giving a blowjob, consider that swallowing sperm could give you sexually transmitted diseases and HIV. However, if you decide to swallow, push the penis to the back of the tongue, because most of the taste buds are located at the front.

The taste of semen, even if it is your boyfriend’s, may not be pleasant for you and, this way, when he ejaculates, it will go straight into your digestive tract. This tract is very resistant to germs, so as the sperm gets there, it will be very short-lived.

Also avoid brushing your teeth, as this could expose your gums or cause bleeding in your mouth. Which can, needless to say, increase HIV transmission  if your partner comes in your mouth.

If you haven’t known your boyfriend for a long time, and you don’t know whether or not he might have HIV, avoid letting it get in your mouth, especially if you have cuts or sores in your mouth and throat. The same goes for other more insidious sexually transmitted diseases, such as hepatitis C. There are other places you can make your partner explode, such as your face or breasts, so get creative!

Still don’t know if you’re giving a blowjob right?

If you still have doubts, or think you’re not doing it right, don’t be afraid to ask your partner! This way you can get a better idea of ​​what he likes or doesn’t like. Regardless, if he’s moaning, panting, or saying things like, “Oh yeah, keep going! ”, he sure is having fun.

And it will be a good sign for you too, because it means that, for your partner, you have already become the cocksucker of his heart.  However, especially if it’s your first time, it’s always a good idea to ask if he likes what you’re doing to him.

Every man, like every woman, is different. A man, for example, may not like a pace that is too fast. Another, on the other hand, might love being treated a little roughly. So, always ask your partner what he likes and listen to his desires. You will both have more fun.

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